Every community appears to have that spam issue. I've got a few friends who are decent (read: pretty bloody good (read: plat/challenger tier)) LoL players, one of them is also fairly high-ranked in osu (game about clicking circles) and a day doesn't go past where either of them doesn't get a new random friend request on Facebook or Skype.
Fairly quiet over here, actually, because the community barely exists. We have one e-sports tournament thing that I know of which happens every 3 months, and our pretty much only game commenter/LPer is HDTanel (or as we love to call him, HDTannu) who basically just milks his viewerbase of 12-year-old boys for money and then hopes that laws don't apply to him (for example, he attempted to start an online game store/rental that was meant to be based on sharing Origin/Steam/XBL accounts). It's a joy to watch.
Maybe I should start making LPs in Estonian, see how many viewers I could get. I don't actually think there are any female LPers here, not even the Kaceytron kind.